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The Loneliness Solution by Jack Eason - Much earlier this year when most countries were "locked down" in some way as a response to a virus, there were popular slogans to encourage us. One of the most popular was something about us being "alone together". Yes, most of us were alone, and since most of the people we knew were also staying home and were alone, we thought we were "alone together" but really . . . we were just . . . alone. And more and more people realized that they were lonely and that they had been lonely for a long time, even when they were together with others. That is one of the paradoxes of our modern world - that we are lonely even though we seem to have so many connections. This book by Jack Eason addresses the epidemic of loneliness, its causes and some practical and compassionate solutions for the problem.
Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty. ~Mother Teresa
Part One opens with this quote, and goes on to describe The Problem of Loneliness. We think we're connected because technology opens so many channels of communication and social networks. Yet many of us only have acquaintances, and not many genuine friends. Eason defines loneliness and discusses the problems that people of all ages face because of loneliness, and the situations that contribute to isolation and loneliness in the first place. Even in these chapters that are describing and presenting the problems, Eason offers a few thoughtful questions and a practical assignment for readers at the end of each chapter.
Part Two focuses on The Loneliness Solution. These chapters present practical and encouraging ways to build relationships in community, church, and family settings. Many of us want to be with others and experience togetherness in a meaningful way, but don't know how to make it happen. Eason's suggestions are great because they are small and incremental steps that inspire courage and growth in relationships. He also addresses the roadblocks to friendship that we need to deal with - things like our selfishness and pride, and being unwilling to forgive. These chapters encourage readers to do things like pray with others, to meet the needs of others, and work with others for a common cause. Adjusting our thinking about friendship and community, and bringing it in line with what the Bible teaches us the church should be. Each of these chapters also ends with questions to think about, and an assignment to put the principles into practice. The book ends with a letter to Christ-followers and some specific encouragement to leaders (who are often especially lonely).
This is a year when we are seeing the effects of loneliness all around us, and I'd venture to say we all need some of the encouragement, challenge, and accountability to others that true community would offer. And we could all use some help in finding solutions for our own loneliness and offering solutions to those around us.
Here's a short video trailer about the book:
From the Publisher:
You are not alone.
We are lonelier than ever. As countless students travel home for the holidays, many may feel especially isolated and lonely, even while "keeping up" with friends on social media. Social media tricks us into thinking that we are engaged in genuine friendships. Yet instead of intimacy, we get little more than what amounts to digital small talk. But there is a solution.
With plenty of good humor and practical advice, Jack Eason invites you to discover the benefits of doing life together with other brothers and sisters in Christ. Grounding his message in Scripture, Eason helps you:
- learn the obstacles to real community
- reimagine what real friendship looks like
- discover a place of true belonging
- and more
If you're tired of feeling lonely, this encouraging and community-building book is just what you need.
NOW is the time to share this book with parents, students--everyone--to foster a healthy, relational community for all!
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