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After the Boxes Are Unpacked: Moving On After Moving In by Susan Miller - A little time has passed since I finished reading this helpful guidebook, and I realized I hadn't written a review! I guess I'll try to keep it short.
I received this book from a dear friend who discovered that it was given to wives of seminary students at a particular school, in order to help them navigate their experiences. It's also especially helpful for military wives who are so often on the move. Author Susan Miller had moved many times throughout her marriage and drew from her experiences, both positive and negative, to develop a ministry and this book that would help women in "Moving On After Moving In".
The biggest challenge that often faces us after a move is making the new place our home instead of just our new address. Learning the way around the new neighborhoods, figuring out new schools and shopping and doctors and churches, settling into the new house or apartment, and perhaps most importantly, making new connections and relationships can be daunting. It's all exacerbated if the move was unexpected or unwanted, or if it accompanies other losses. Miller gives permission to acknowledge all the losses and the grief that accompanies a move, but also firmly and gently points out that it's necessary to move on. She offers sound advice about planning logistics as well as adjusting thinking and attitudes to embrace the reality of a new situation gracefully.
I believe this book was first published in the mid-1990s when internet resources and connections weren't quite as ubiquitous as they are now, but from my own experience I'd say the virtual connections and abundant online resources are both blessing and curse for movers. Finding information about a new locality and doing all the things like address changes and finding new doctors can certainly be done with ease thanks to the internet. It's also easier to stay in touch with friends "back home" and I didn't have to miss a beat with my online friends. But in my opinion, that also takes away some of the urgency of finding new friends and connecting personally at a church or other local community.
If you or a loved one has recently made a move or will be making one soon, I do recommend this book. It's full of common sense wisdom from someone who has been there, both practical and spiritual. It's encouraging and kindly challenging in its reminders to keep growing closer to God during times of transition and transplanting.
This is a book that doesn't fit any of the other prompts (#51) for The 52 Book Club's 2023 Reading Challenge
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